Lala Anthony appeared on the Arsenio Hall show to promote her newly released book entitled ” The Love Playbook: Rules For Love, Sex, & Happiness “. Lala explains that breaking your rules, being spontaneous, an establishing a friendship with your significant other first is the recipe for a long lasting relationship.
Lala is currently married to Knicks player, Carmelo Anthony whom she’s been with for more than a decade. The two married in 2010 and have a six-year old son. Take a read at her interview highlights below.
On How She Met Melo:
” A mutual friend of ours, DJ Clue who I was actually doing a television show with was like I want to introduce you to Carmelo Anthony, he’s a basketball player. Soon as I heard the word basketball player I was like absolutely NOT. I did But you know, we were friends first because you know, you hear the hear the stereotypes and things people says but we were friends first and and I talk about that in the book. that when you develop a friendship with someone first it helps you last longer in a relationship. “
On Breaking The Rules:
” Sometimes you have to break your own rules and you learn from trying different things and it worked for us. “
On Women Giving Men A “Free Pass” To Cheat:
” I think that is the absolutely worst idea of all time. I just think your opening the floodgates to ALOT of problems. Why would you allow you man to cheat on you an be okay with that? That just destroys the relationship – that’s my opinion and I’m totally against it. “
Advice On Getting A Baller:
” You don’t try to get a BALLER , you just be confident in yourself when you go out there and you’ll attract great energy, and you’ll get the right kind of attention. Guys can tell when you’re ‘desperate‘ and ‘thirsty‘ and sometimes guys use that for negative things. “
Listen to Lala’s advice on older men spicing it up in the bedroom, being spontaneous, and how to handle an “endowed” man below: